Hi, Carri. Did you ever see this FFF post? There are hundreds of comments, all about sewing machines!
http://sewmamasew.com/blog2/?p=429I am still undecided myself. I think the big question is whether you want a mechanical or computerized machine. Also, whether you plan to do emboidery or quilting with your machine. In my case I think the answer is no, so I might just go with a mechanical machine and then buy the best that I can afford. A lot of people in that post I mentioned above really recommended their Berninas, which seems to be consistently true in most reviews I've read. They are, however, expensive. I have a simple Kenmore and put miles and miles on it without any troubles (until I dropped it.) Good luck in your search!