I am rather new to sewing and am having a bit of trouble. I just found this forum and thought I'd ask my question here.
The first dresses my daughter and I sewed turned out wonderful, BUT we had trouble. We made them (same patterns, Simplicity) according to the sizes as listed based on our measurements. I measured out at a 14 and my daughter at a 12. When the dresses were done they were massive on us. We proceeded to rip them apart, cut them down size by size until we got the sizes that actually fit - sizes 6 and 8.
Now we're starting on some skirts. I'm not wanting to rip the skirts down again like the dresses, that was a lot of time wasted. Again, I measured at a size 14 (Butterick). This skirt has three panels to the front so I can't exactly take the pattern itself and hold it up to my body to see just how big an 8 is vs the 14.
I have called one friend who suggested I cut the fabric out to size 8, my mom is afraid to advise me for fear of wasting beautiful fabric, I called JoAnn's and they put me on hold then hung up on me after 10 minutes.

I live about 45 minutes from town so swinging by the fabric store is rather out of the question.
Any recommendations would be nice. Thanks.
Lisa