Welcome to sewing! I answered you questions below, but I also wanted to write that sewing should be fun. Don't stress about getting it all perfect because if you ever look at a manufactured garment closely, you will see that they are far from perfect. Enjoy what you make by hand! I am very new to sewing (and love it!!) I have attempted 3 dresses using the Carla C Simply Sweet Pattern..but I have trouble every time with the following:
When I have a gathered skirt and attach to the bodice it seems so thick where they join (on the inside of the dress) This area will usually be thicker due to the amount of fabric you are trying to attach. I've found that trimming the seam allowance with pinking shears or sergering the seam helps remove the bulk.
When attaching a ruffle to a skirt bottom I have trouble making the ruffle seem even. Some places look more gathered than others. I have been using the "sewing over floss" method to create the ruffle.
Honestly, my gathers are never even. I used to stress over it and try to get them spread out evenly, but in the end no one can tell except you. If you plan on ruffling more over time, I highly suggest investing in a ruffling foot. This is my favorite foot and it saves a ton of time!
Any suggestions would be appreciated. Thanks!