The way I alter my clothes is to put them on inside out, mark the areas / existing seams that are too big with pins or chalk, and then do a long basting stitch. If it's not right, you can easily take it out with long stitches.
It gets trickier if the shoulders are too big, then you have to remove the sleeve, carefully cut away the excess, following as perfectly as you can the existing shape, then put the sleeve back on.
I hope this helps!
